Anthony,
besides here, I check the fly-in sections on:

www.runryder.com
www.rotory.com
www.scaleRChelis.com

you just missed a scale heli gathering this past weekend SW of Atlanta, GA
there will be an electric heli fly-in in Birmingham, I believe on May-8-9
There is a scale heli meet in Sanford, FL next weekend
There is a scale heli meet in Mulberry, FL in November
There is a SUPER scale fly-in at Dalton, GA Sept 14-15

Oh by the way, did I mention I like scale helis??
there are many other meets for 3D and the Birmingham fly-in a few weeks ago was fantastic

Good Luck