Hey Billy --
I'm right there with ya man (I was kidding about meeting girls). Mine goes on some awful jealousy binges once in a while, and it's not like I really spend much time with my planes anyway... just her feelings about the world at that particular time.
Sometimes hard to take, but it's been 27 years (as of yesterday), so I guess it must be bearable on both sides. Anyway, I sympathise.