Since when are any hobbies cheap
Funny story you complain about the cost of things however you also state that given the choice of a lesser product you opt for the more expensive Product
RTF Trainer 299.00 or less includes radio & engine
150.00 for Field equipment (thats about 100.00 more then absolutly neccessary
58.00 for AMA
30.00 For Club Dues
Grand total 537.00
Savings 401.00 dollars
Your post is EXACTLY the reason why most members here recommend finding a club before spending any money
But don't worry after your first flight it will all seem worth it
The AMA used to let you fly if you paid with a credit card after the payment cleared they have/had a spot on there web site to check your membership status that you could print out as proof of insurance give them another call and ask about it