RE: 1st Kit
Wow, I think that you will get too much info from this request. I would suggest that you carefully think about the type of aircraft you wish to build then choose one from the likes of Top Flite, SIG, Goldberg, Great Planes, etc.
I would also strongly suggest that you first look at the kits you have short listed and check out the instructions, plans and contents to make sure that you are comfortable that you can follow the steps. This will require a well stocked hobby store with competent staff.
Then read the instructions and examine the plans many times before starting work.
Good luck and read the instructions.
Cheers,
Colin