NO, but I wouldn't air out my laundry on this site. You have the list of people they contacted in the e-mail they sent. Hit "Reply to all" and defend your postition to them via the e-mail.
No need to bring it here. Use back channels to get this resolved and if you still think it requires a lawyer then go for it. But regardless of your reasons for posting this here, IMHO it makes you look bad, not right and not wrong, just in a bad light. And your little banner on your web-site in replacement of their link
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