I agree with a lot of what's been said. If you think it's too windy for you to fly, it probably is.
Second, learn to use the RUDDER! I can't emphasize that enough. I was taught to use it almost as much as any other control, and the past couple of weeks have flown in winds 15 to 25, gusting to 30. And those were direct crosswinds. (You know the wind I mean. WHere you have to speak up a LOT for the guy standing next to you to hear what you're saying.

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I've been at it for 9 years now (as of this coming July 4th weekend), and it's been a progression of abilities in stronger and stronger wind.
Take your time, and push yourself a little. Just don't go way beyond your comfort limit.

Dennis-