RE: Aerofly Pro wind and turbulence
I turned it all the way up and matched your turbulence and tried it out. I could land it without crashing most of the time, and when it did crash it seems that it was due to a prop strike.
I have flown in 23 mph winds and I don't think it's accurately modeled in the sim. I would say that the way the model acts in the air right up to the point where it touches is realistic and is a good means to practice flying under those conditions, it's just not as hard as what the sim makes it out to be. At least for me I don't think it's hard.
What's fun is to try several waterfalls in a row and watch how far it blows you away from the start.