RE: Do you use servo grommets in your jet?
I have run without grommets for years for the same reasons, namely fear of flutter. In addition I counterbalanced all of the flight surfaces in my last bandit. Probabaly not as big a deal in the 200 mph speed limit days we live in unless you operate without AMA membership.
A lot of low frequency vibration comes from out of round tires, so changing them frequently helps. I still wrap the Rx in foam however