I was a newbie in my new town four years ago. I now belong to 4 clubs, each one is very different than the others. Each has its' own agenda and types of aircraft flown. I was readily accepted at each one, with no problems, plenty of offers of help, and friendly and courteous treatment. I did "pre-flight" each field, by showing up early on a Sunday afternoon, explaining I was new to the area, showing my AMA card without being asked, and asking if I could join them in flying as a guest, until I could join. This was done at five or six fields. According to the reception and attitude of the pilots, I decided not to join a couple of groups. About a year ago, I got invited by an elite group of IMAC pilots and 3D guys to join a new club at a private field with limited membership (by the owner of the IAC) field. I was very honored and asked why an intermediate pilot, such as myself was asked to join such experts. Thier reply was, that they enjoyed my company, ready assistance at the field, and my safety concious attitude.
The moral of the story here, is, that not all clubs are for everyone, but everyone likes helpful courteous people, who follow safety rules, and share flight time. I hope all the other newbies out there can find the terrific comraderie and friendship, I have found in this great hobby.