RE: Beginners 1st Kit
Look long and hard at Sig & Great Planes kits, as they are teh best out there for 'new builders' like yourself. Their manuals are full of helpful hints, and each step is explained. Definietly teh way to go..
Now, from GP, look at teh dazzler, teh nobler, the Slow Poke, teh Pete'nPoke, the Super Sportster
Sig, teh 4 star 40, teh Fazer (as mentioned) and of course, teh highly toted Something Extra (perfect for your 46)
I woudl suggest you look at the Something Extra, easy build, laser cut parts, and a blast to fly!! Definitely a good start!