The first step is to locate a flying field in your area. Stop by and talk to some of the pilots. They can help point you in the right direction. Find out things like what kind of radio most of them are using (this will help when you are ready to go on the buddy box). Find out what kind of engines are most common. Just maybe you will get lucky. Some clubs have their own trainer, all you have to do is join the club and AMA of corse and they will teach you to fly on their plane.