Dennis, there's lots of R/C activity all around NC. Not sure about the hobby shop situation in Charlotte, but there are several shops in the Hickory, Winston Salem area that get good reports. check out this thread:
http://www.rcuniverse.com/forum/m_24...tm.htm#2404349
You've already made the first step, get in touch with a club. Next, I would go check out some of the hobby shops. Don't buy anything until you get a chance to talk with an instructor. Once you've got a feel for what you need, buy from the source that gives you the best overall deal. Note, getting help from the local hobby shop (LHS) is invaluable for a beginner. They may cost a little more than someplace like Tower Hobbies, but being able to go there or call when you've got a question is well worth the premium.