RE: To Fly or Not to Fly?
One more thought, that others have expressed. Think about whether it would be worth the 50+ mile trip to the other club, at least enough to get your wings. A few long drives is preferable to trashing and rebuilding your plane several times. See if the other club is willing to help you. One thing I've found over the years is that most modelers will go out of their way to help others. All the people on RCU are a perfect example. Perhaps you can arrange enough sessions there to get your wings. Maybe someone from that club lives between their field and the one near yours and would be interested in coming to your field. It's worth a couple calls.