You might want to look at it this way.

With a car when you make a mistake you hit a curb and roll over. Then you walk over turn it right side up and drive until you hit the other curb. Repeat.

With an airplane when you make a mistake, and you are lucky, you crash into the ground and destroy your airplane. Then if you are good you can spend a couple of days/weeks fixing your airplane.

If you are not lucky on the way to the ground the airplane hits your five year old neigbor kid. No mater how much you hate the snot nosed brat it ruins your life.

Get a good trainer and instructor.