thaks bruce, you have much wisdom.

i took a walk to calm my self. ok, he said he sent me an email that said that he was send the refund, but I did not get this email(its possible the electronic contraptions did loose that email. but he states when he did send it. if I haven't goten it by later this week Im shure he didn't send it. he states that "i sent you that email telling you about the money order last week" he even tells me what collor envalope it is. I should have it by wednesday or thursday by my reconing.

on the 13th of jan. he says its going to fedex. no contact till I initiate contact on the 23rd of Jan. on the 24th he states that he sent a email prevouse to that but i did all i could to recover the mystery email. he says its coming because he sent it off before the "mystery email" so should I have not gotten it allrealdy??