RE: I'm a total newbie
Welcome Ben to R/C:
The advice for the most part has been excellent. At our club, we have a couple of club trainers that we let those who are interested in getting into R/C, fly with the buddy box. Our instructors are always anxious to help newcomers get the feel for it, determine if they would really like to fly before they invest sums of money.
We have several "old timers" who love nothing more than helping the newcomer assemble enough field equipment to get started. It does not take a whole lot of $$.
Check the "Marketplace" at RC Universe. There are usually always trainers for sale at very reasonable prices. You can pick out an item or two and then consult with someone at the club to help you determine if it is reasonable. The nice thing about RC Universe Marketplace is you can ask the seller questions.
Don't get discouraged, talk to the club members, let them counsel you. We need young people to continue the growth of our sport. That's where innovation, new ideas and concepts come from.
Good luck, Ben. You are embarking on a very exciting and fun (good clean fun) adventure that will enhance your life for years to come.
Sincerely,