RE: Which Stik (stick)?
I have a lot of discussion about this with fellow flyers...but I think I think a Hanger 9 .40 size Stick with the control surface throws "Mechanically set to the lowest" is the perfect trainer plane!!!
It is one of the most forgiving planes in the air...and the easiest to land! But you have to remember you have to work your way up...as far as your flying skills!
With the H9 .40 Stick you have your first and second plane built into one...as long as you start out with soft throws...then work your way up!!