Heck, I just try to look at groups of people as 90-10. I think of myself as being in the 90%. In post 117, I'm talking about the 10%. I try not to place anybody I haven't met in the 10% group until they prove they belong there. Sometimes, I even find a group that looks like 96-4. It's a lot easier to sort people out this way in face-to-face rather than in this type of correspondance. That's why at work I'll walk over to someone else's cubical or office before I'll phone or E-mail.