RE: Suggested Beginner .61 size Airplane
ARF's definitely have their place in my hanger. Don't get me wrong, I've built two kits already, and have one at my Dad's that he's gonna build most of, but I'll probably help some. The reason I like ARF's is that this hobby takes so much time as it is--just maintaining and flying your planes. I don't need to spend even more time away from my family building planes. It's a matter of time for me--more time for the family, which means they're more willing to give up some time so I can go flying.
I'd also recommend the goldberg Tiger 60. i think it comes as a kit, and is a great flying plane. With a good instructor, you could easily learn on it.