Trainer or Other
Hi David,
The experience we have had in our club with new flyers with the GP PT-40 is that it is agood flying trainer, reasonably easy to build, no real bad habits.
You might also want to consider any of the Sig Kadet series - kits. They are real good trainers.
I'll probably sound like a broken record, but before you you get too deep into this very addictive hobby, check out your local club.
You want to find out what folks are flying and what the club instructors (Yes, you are going to need an instructor to learn to fly - it just doesn't come naturally) plus you gain the advantage of meeting people who have done a significant amount of bnuilding who can be called on for help.
Hope it goes real well with you and any one here will be more than happy to help with your questions.
RC flying is a really neat Father - Son bonding experience. Go for it !