If you want to go out and trash a plane trying to learn-thats not really the way to go.

I would recommend getting a flight simulator- that way you have pretty much unlimited planes.
Here are some Flight sims:
Reflex XTR(my favorite)
Real Flight G2,G3(i belive that this is a waste of money)
Aerofly pro deluxe(i have not used it but i have heard it is okay)

it is different to see a girl on this website