fwiw, I fly a mix of airplanes as well, including some park fliers. When I fly them, I either fly when the bigger planes aren't up, or I get out beyond the runway, since floating around over the runway is disruptive, weither you are a slow-moving electric or an acrobatic plane or heli hovering.

Anyway, not all clubs are as described. Some are, some aren't.

If the club closest to you is like that, then you can actually fix it. Join, get your friends to join, hang out together and attract more guys like you. Works here. Heck, once there are a few of you, take over one or more positions running the club. It's usually easier than you think.