There is a message in the above posts. Perhaps you will take heed and find yourself a qualified instructor and allow him to show you how we all do this, or have learned to do all of this.

Yes, there are some that have done it without an instructor, but I assure you, most, if not all, will say that they wish they had an instructor around. It would have cost them a lot less that way in both frustration and heartache (broken or destroyed aircraft) and joy at learning how to do it the right way.