Xoon, to PM, you click on the name of the person you want to PM and then click on PM. You can probably figure it out from there.
Sorry I'm 18, but I agree about there being a serious lack of kids in the hobby. At every club I've been a member(3), I was the young kid pilot.( at least the only one that flies more than three times a year) Now at the club I'm at(VRCFC) I am one of three kids my age. One comes out about every month, and the other comes out about every three months. I'm fly once or twice a week. My club sort-of encourages young people to fly, but not really. But good luck on your decisioin. The one thing I've learned in my short life is create a plan and stick to it ( unless it goes down in flames). Don't compromise with what you believe or think.