The guy's here are right, the Alpha is a very good trainer, if you go ARF let me know, I don't think you get a flight sim with that. I have an extra Flight sim and cord for connetting a JR Quattro to the computer. I will be more than happy to send it to you. Think I have a JR to Futaba trainer link also.
They are also correct on finding an instructor, the majority of my problems never would have happened if I had an instructor. Flying is only one part of the learning process. There are lots of things besides flying that he can help you with to keep your plane in the air.
And ask guestions! No question is dumb when it comes to RC airplanes.
The only advantage of going alone is you will become really good at repairing your plane.[&o]
Good luck!