ORIGINAL: 2slow2matter
As far as grumpy goes--grumpy is everywhere. It's the society we live in today, and sometimes older people blame younger people on the world's problems--right or wrong. You don't have to go to a flying field to be around grumpy old people. Go to walmart, or the lake, or any other public place--they're everywhere. Also, some very good, helpful older people are there as well. Don't feel like all old people are grumpy--it's simply not true.
If I were you, I'd join the "not so nice" field. You made it sound like it was cheaper, and had a very nice field, just not so many ammenities. Are you planning on float flying anytime soon? Are you planning on flying when it's really cold? (well, scratch that, I see you're in SD). You may find that at the smaller club (I assume it's smaller), the people will be more willing to help. Sometimes, those large, fancy clubs have members that have been around forever--and, frankly, they feel like they have enough members to pay the bills, and don't need no young whippersnappers around screwing things up. Just my take on some large, fancy clubs. I know the older guys at my club are awesome. Most would give the shirt off their back to help you out, and it's a small club out in the middle of nowhere!
One other point about the insurance, and I'll shut up. Just because you're flying in a field a mile away from civilization, let's not forget that your about one glitch or radio failure away from your plane flying potentially miles away from you at speeds up to 70 mph or more--potentially into a crowded area you never dreamed your plane would end up in. There are posts on RCU from members who have had their planes fly away--and just keep flying, and flying, and flying...
Well, as usual my post don't translate well on the internet. Havn't met the Grumpy guys here...yet... THat was all talk about past experiences. I'm Old enough to know how the world works so people don't bother me like they did when I was younger.
Well the not so nice field is actually quite nice.
As far as AMA goes, I joined... So that's that... As far as the field I have flown in by myself; the plane would have to fly about 15 miles in order to hit anything worth more than $1.50... South Dakota isn't as big as Texas but our wide open areas are way less populated than Texas and South Dakota Winds would more than likely down the bird before it got a 1/2 mile away. Anyways, I joined AMA so I could fly at both fields and I'm actually going to attend both clubs meetings for a while before I commit. One of the members at the nicer( in my opinion) club is actually a member of all three clubs in the area... third club is for the big boy birds though, the Giant scale stuff which I'm not into unless you count my 1977 Cessna 172N which is 1/1 scale and is powered by a Lycoming o-320 with TX/RX being a Human Mk 1... frequency 0... And as far as Safety goes, well I play with bombs for a living ( USAF) so I know a lil bit about operational Risk management and other safety concerns.