Always happy to see girls/women enter the hobby. There are many good trainers to choose from. Several of my students have done very well with the Alpha series of planes. Depending on your budget, I would recommend the ARF version which would allow you to choose your own engine and radio. You sound like you are sure you intend to stay with this so I advise a nice Ball bearing motor and good (not expensive) radio. An OS 40FX or 46AX would both be good motors and a radio like a Futaba 6EXA. Pick a brand popular at your field, especially if you feel you will need to be on a buddy box for a while. Glow planes are different than electric and you will need to adjust. This radio/engine combination can be moved into future planes without being outdated too quickly.