FMS is a free D/L
http://n.ethz.ch/student/mmoeller/fms/index_e.html
All you need is your transmitter and an interface cable that goes from your buddy box port to a serial or parellel port on the computer.
The cables are available on EBay for about $12 - $15 or you can make your own if you are handy. The FMS site has schematics for various setups.
This is a decent simulator, especially for the money.
Hope this helps.