the aerobirds (challenger/xtreme) are probably the absolute best way to get started in rc. they are cheap, nearly indestructable, easy enough to fly without an instructor and in an area much smaller then most glows... yeah, most of the equipment used in one isn't capable of being used in another model, but they also cost less then a decent transmitter by itself!

lots of people will always say go out and spend $300+, but for someone that may not even be sure they like the hobby, that could be a very expensive single flight. get something cheap, and if they are hooked at that point they will go on to bigger and better stuff on their own.