RE: 2 questions
"Lugging" an engine can cause rod problems, and the rod usually ovals out and eventually has the lower-end break because the sides have been stretched too much.
Over-revving causes the rod to tend to seize to the crank because oil just can't get in fast enough to keep it lubed. They can also have a catastrophic break on the sides due to the high loads imposed when the rod changes direction from up to down.