It's not elitist, but there are certain realities to it. You might not have a realistic idea of how dangerous these models can be. For most modelers, AMA membership is a de facto requirement to participating in the hobby. Even the public field I fly at requires AMA membership. The reason for this is fear of litigation when an accident happens.

The folks in this hobby are by and large some of the nicest and most down to earth you'll meet. This forum is a good example of just how willing to help most of us are. It's very easy to make new friends at the field, as you've all got something in common already and most people's experiences in learning are similar to everyone else's.

There are costs involved. Fuel is $10-$18 a gallon, depending on where in the country you live and how the market is there. Getting started realistically costs a bit over $400 dollars. It's a very rewarding hobby, and one with an almost endless amount of variety. Have a look here http://modelaircraft.org/templates/a...33A9987267FA43 and find a club near you. Get in contact with them, or pay them a visit some nice weekend afternoon. You'll have a much better feel for things once you've done that, and it won't cost you anything but some time.