All those questions you ask can better be answered 1 on 1 by visiting a club and then making sure you get their help learning. Sure you can do it your self but those questions will still be there, it isn't worth the hassel, pain and expence. I know --- I did it many years ago and still wish I could have had the help you folks have today.

I agree with driver except that I like the Midwest Aerobat for a plane -- but thats me. The engine is great and with just a little experience with the Hitec it is a good system as far as I know. I use Futaba when I can.

I think the main thing is to get some assistance now so you will be better able to help your son, if you are crashing all the time, he isn't going to stick with you, I know from experience.
ENJOY !!! RED