As the originator of this thread, I feel my questions have been sufficiently answered. Statements that people "have little, or no building skills" are "Dead lazy" and "Loud experts" etc. is far beyond constructive help! Being "Harsh" is unnecessary!
And those statements in that one post by that one person were salted with happy faces to help everyone understand that they were in jest. The laughing happy face suggests laughter. The winking happy face says, "this is just funning around". If there had been a "tongue in cheek" happy face I would have used that too.
They were in jest. Humor makes fun of ourselves often. I realized that some wouldn't get it, and that some wouldn't think it was funny even if they noticed that it was humor, but decided to give it a shot anyway. And having to be politically correct has never been my strong suit. [&:] Sorry to offend you.