sblaze--here is another thought for you (like you need more at this point ;-) ). You evidently have a computer at home (I'm assuming)---does he have an RC flight simulator program? There are some AWESOME ones around, and there is no less expensive way to learn to fly--crashes don't hurt nearly so much ($$).
I've met 2 people this year that were virtually self-taught--they learned to fly with their simulators at home, and when they came to the field to fly the real thing, they were unbelievable--they knew how to fly. Maybe a simulator for X-mas, and the "Real Thing" for---??? Something to consider.
Hope this helps!