What can I say??
Well finally I've a history to tell: Minutes after posting this thread I found what I was looking for
BuddyBox , but wait!... aint gonna wait for the shipping!!

so I went to one of the hobbies stores here on town at lunch time and bought one for $39.99 + tax (that a difference of about 10 bucks -remember s&h) after that an interface was needed! so back on-line I spent 35$ bucks on an inteface at:
Interface that's a total of about 85$...
Resuming; I hope people do not make the same mistake I made. I've spent like 500$ including Heli and simulator (wait for crashes!) now I'm going to encourage some people to create a guide for beginners to save some money.
Thankz