I use(d) the free FMS beta 7. There is a newer version available too. It is not all that realistic (wind, nerves, smells missing) but it gives an idea of the perspective. I think somebody said version Alpha 8.5 has wind. I just use FMS with the keyboard but you can get a cable... somewhere. Even a gamepad might work.
http://n.ethz.ch/~mmoeller/fms/index_e.html