Sounds bad out there. I would take the trainer to the field, and ask someone there for help. Its unfortunate they are that way. I know there are a couple at our field that will not help, and they are capable, but that happens. Don't get discouraged. Most people in this hobby are great. Wish you were closer, I would help. Keep on them. Join the club, get to know some people, learn the hobby well, and help others. Show them what being nice can do!