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But what I noticed while I was there was no one wanted to take the time to talk to me. After leaving both of those clubs I thought maybe I'll just stick with the park, but the parks here that are flying friendly are getting fewer and fewer. I plan to check out two of the smaller clubs in hopes that they will be more to my liking.
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Perhaps you were ignored because the persons there have a short amount of time for their sport along with the possibility (strong one) that they see a large number of people each weekend that "want to do RC", spend a lot of time talking and talking, then disappear into the sunset.
I would bet that if you asked where and when the club-meetings are held, who runs the membership committee, and/or just go read the bulletin board where all that info usually is. Then show up at the club meeting with an AMA card and cash-in-hand for dues, tell the club about yourself during the new member introduction time, and offer help on any committee that performs whatever your special talants are, and I will bet that before you know it, you will be having more conversationists around you than you want.
It is far easier to go to the mountain than wait for the mountain to come to you.