SJN thank your response, but i am afraid that you are going to have to treat me like i am stupid on this one, Here is what I did I bought a cheat relay, the coil is 5 volts. When I connected the +/- to the terminal for the coil on the relay, it just stays on the whole time, no way to turn it off, When it comes to motor controls I have a good understaning of how most of them work, But for remote controls and servo and the accessories that can go along with them I am not sure of what is out there to help with different situation. Are you telling me that there is a device that i can plug into the reciever that will allow me to turn a relay on and off with the tramitter even with the signal wire being utalized. I'm not sure if this helps but i have a transmitter and receiver that is used for aiplanes.

and again thanks for you response EE Jason