I totally agree with this post. I am a self taught pilot who spent many years at the local school yards with my planes, but that was over 35 years ago. Things are much different now, and things like safety, leagel issues, and host of other problems with that senerio, didn't seem important to us kids back then. I wish I had gotten involved with the clubs in the area long before I did. Go to the AMA (Academy of Model Aeronautics) web site (modelaircraft.org), find a local club, visit and talk with the guys. They may even be able to fix you up with some basic equipment as someone always has a trainer for sale, and, if it is all to your liking, purchase the membership from the AMA (get's you the added insurence that a sactioned club will need from you), and you are on your way. As has already been stated, this is where you will get you best advise and hands on assistance. You will enjoy those visits to the local hobby shop even more, armed with knowledge. Read magazines like RC Report, and the AMA magazine you will want to get with your membership. Sites like this will also contain a wealth of info (remebering that oppinions vary on any given subject).

It is a great hobby for you and you son, and I hope this is the season you both earn your wings. Welcolme and be safe, have fun, and enjoy all the wonderfull people you will meet in this great hobby....................Oh, one more thing, your wife may never understand all this, but I'm sure her 'boys' having fun together, will bring her some joy as well.