Rinoldi,I too at a late age of 50 decided I was mature enough to get into this sport.I done everything the right way.I read and researched,bought a plane,joined the AMA,and the local club. I tried unsucessfully for 5 months to get someone at the club to teach me. In that time I stayed on the simulator that came with my plane.It was the Nexstar Select.I finally lost patience and went out to the field until I found it empty.I soloed on my first flight.I got 4 more flights in before I lost oreintation and planted the Nexstar.Anyway,to shorten the story,I have now been flying 17 months and made some good friends at the club.I have also made sure anyone I meet new that wants to fly I help them.I have taught sucessfully 4 people to fly.Don't give up.If you were closer I would be happy to help.