Try this and see if it helps... Don't try to hold the heli in one spot, just keep it moving around a bit, that way your flying it instead of chasing it. Trying to keep it in one spot is not important, but being in control of it is... Remember to keep the heli always moving, and keep the tail pointed at you for now. Let me know if that helps, it sure helped me when Lacey gave me that advise...