Hey SpeedyJo.......
Go to
www.raptortechnique.com, Mike Prewitt has a section under simulators dedicated soley to the Reflex XTR and some specific hints for your RD6000.
And don't give up, I too am new to heli's and became frustrated early on. Read your manuals and ask questions from experienced pilots in these forums and in your area. I have never had trouble getting good credible help.