lol,, misspelling will NOT be tolerated in the forums you are hereby BANISHED forever!!

LOL, dude if everyone that could not spell in this forum all lit a candle at the same time, you would be blinded from space.
Sounds like you need something like a 4 Star or maybe as Ken suggsted the Somethin Extra. I have not had any experience with the SSE.. A real scale plane might be a bit much if you are still struggling with landings a little and you cannot fly inverted. I know you want a kit, but the Sig Mayhem and the 40 sized U CAN DO would alos be good planes for what you are wanting.. Both are very stable and nice gentle flyers if you stay on low rates and go with the recommended CG.