Just for those thinking about trying a simulator first : Good for you!

The simulator will NOT hurt you. If you use it properly, you can go from no experience to being able to handle the plane flying toward you, before you ever try a flying plane. You can get used to making approaches, you can get used to the landing process, you can even try aerobatic maneuvers.

The simulator is not a complete training course, so I still recommend getting a good instructor. My contention is, that instructor will have an easier time, and you will have a shorter training period, if you use a simulator first and practice with it through the training period.

After the training period, you can practice intricate maneuvers on the sim before trying them with your plane, and that is another benefit.

Just my 2¢ worth.
Dave Olson