Thanks Zeeb,
Your rational you described is exactly what I was trying to do. Just enough throttle to where it starts moving. When I posted though, say it would start going left, I would adjust the trim and there was no happy medium. It would start going hard right. I couldn't find a balance where it would just slightly move. Same with all the other directions as well. It's like it's all or nothing.
One thing I did do is adjust the physics down to 50% which put it in slow mo. That way at least I can fly it and train how to react. As I get comfortable I'll up it until I get to 100%. Actually I may do like I do with my planes, adjust it up to 115 to 125% so I'm learning everything faster than what it's like in real world so hopefully real world will seem like slow mo.
Thanks for the input.