WELL HERES THE UPDATE:
I ended up purchasing the Great planes software. I got alot for my money so it was truely worth it. I also looked at the used pricing and it was so close to the new pricing that i can sell all my stuff and only loose about $40

I got the G3 with expansion pack 1. I have already spent about 2-3 hours learning to fly, and watching some of the instructional videos.
My question is: Where should i start exactly?
which plane is the best to learn how to fly on?
What are some techniques that i should be practicing? other than avoid crashing.
The electric plane i am going to buy is the slow stick. It is no where near as fast as some of these other planes so learning the sim should put me in great shape to fly the slow stick.
any advice would be appreciated