Dirt man please first put it back together _exactly_ the way it is supposed to be, with the flat side of each step washer _away_ from its bearing., and the shims between the inner step washers and the o-rings. Be very careful when you put the blade grip retaining screws in, that you do not "catch" the outer step washer between the spindle and the flat washer/screw, it should fit completely over the spindle.
Once you have it together correctly, do the test in the pics again, and we will go from there.
I'm not mad, just frustrated.

bladecx, they are little washerlike thingies that are used to set up the "damping" in the head. You can get them by the bagful from your local EFlite supplier. They are really thin and you need from 0 to 5 per side, depending on a lot of different factors like the temperature, the phase of the moon, and who's on first.