ORIGINAL: Soda Ant
I think your wish to "go with a nice plane in the begging (sic) so i will never have to upgrade" is misguided. You need to start with a trainer, or something like one (e.g. Big Stik) before you move on to more advanced models. Do you think the Blue Angels took their first flying lessons in F/A-18's?
Once you've mastered the trainer, then you can incrementally move up to the next level. Hold off on getting that 40% Extra until you have some experience under your belt unless you have very deep pockets.
A simulator is also a big help and can save you a lot of money, even after you've mastered the basics.
I agree with you on the simulator. I got FS ONE for Christmas. I am just starting out in the hobby and was at the airfield training the other day. I had never flown a plane before and my trainer was amazed at how well I flew. I would highly recommend getting a simulator program. Yeah it is $209 but it will save you a ton of money in the long run. It has helis, turbine, trainers, and etc. I am a big fan of the simulator