First of all I understand your frustration. Please remember the people who instruct volunteer to do so because they want to help others learn our great hobby and he is probably equally frustrated that he can't get the time with you. I am a new instructor working on my 3rd student as of yesturday. The difference between this student and my first two is that the first two had simulator experience. Thus they did not have disorientation problems... just technique. This third student will be more challenging and will probably take a little longer to get him comfortable with his plane. With that said, I do recomend a simulator as you can fly your desktop reguardless of weather and a park flyer is grounded when the winds exceed 5 mph.

PM me if your ever in Fayetteville, NC on a nice weekend day (Fri, Sat. Sun) and I will take you out with my trainer if need be.

Good luck, Have fun, Don't quit.